who am I today
But I guess that is part of getting the most joy and success out of life- is taking and seeing the good out of anything and going for it. If you are constantly seeing the good in things, think about how much more fulfilled your life will feel, and how much more at peace you will be.
Easier said than done I know...but the funny thing about that is the more you practice it, the more permanent it becomes as a part of your daily thinking.
Practice doesn't make perfect, practice makes permanent.